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female
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30-35,
*d79
writes:So I have been friends with this girl for about a year now. We're best friends and everything was fine up until recently when one of my friend told me that she is bi and likes me... Which I don't have a problem with seeing as I'm bi. I just find it soo hard to believe that she would like me because shes is super boy crazy and is constantly talking about guys...and another problem is that he's telling me all that based on what he sees when we're all hanging out together. And most of the things that he tells me that she does that shows that she likes me..I just think of them as "oh it's just her personality." Because it's how she has always act towards me. But a part of me feels like he could be right because he can read people like a nerd with a book. I've tried talking to my other friends about it and they have all noticed that she acts different towards me than other people. She has told me before that she would date me if I was a guy and that she needs to find someone with my personality. She is constantly telling me that I'm hot and holding my hand...but again, I've never read into any of it because I feel like its just her personality. We were also each other valentine and prom date. Anyways, I really want to know if she likes me or not but I don't want to ask her because I don't want to ruin our friendship if my friend is wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2013): Aww it sounds so cute! But like you say how do you know its not in her personality? How long have you known her? Have u known her long enough to know she's not like it with everybody? Maybe the guy thing is a cover up, I was the same when I was younger but I'm 100% lesbian. Do you ever initialise any hand holding etc...try it and see what she does? Maybe when you do it next look at her in the eyes and see if there is a moment?
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reader, R1  +, writes (10 July 2013):
 I think you need a few more clues before you make a move. Could you get a mutual friend to ask her in a subtle way?
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