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writes:Okay, I've seen a lot of questions like this and none of the answers have really helped, and I really do need advice on this one.I'm in Year 9 and recently, I've got to know a boy in Year 12 and now I'm starting to fall for him.He really is a lovely person, and an absolute dream to be around. I wouldn't say we're great friends, but there is a spot of friendship there.He's a very lovely person and he's nice to everyone, but I feel like he's nicer to me personally, or it might just be me feeling that way.I really want to know how he feels without making it obvious that I like him. I talk to him and hug him, but I really do want to be more than friends. A lot of people are telling me the age gap is too big, but it doesn't bother me, I'm scared it might bother him. And another thing, I don't want to directly tell him I like him, because my best friend is a boy and he says that boys do get a bit freaked out if you say it to them. Please help? This is getting to be a really big problem for me. Thanks.
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Well, one way to tell is to see if he's treating the other girls he knows the same way. If you're the only one, then I would say that he does like you.
Since he's in grade 12, he may have a lot of stuff on his mind that would make him hesitate in making you his girlfriend- exams, university, etc. If he rejects you, try not to be too hurt.
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