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writes:Hiya me and my wife are going to see a show in a few days and stopping over night at a hotel. I seriously want to make it a fun but secretive night. Without doing all the taking her out stuff or dressing up or music I really want tips on how to start teasing her and making her want sex. Also what could I do to keep teasing her all throughout the day and night to make it unresistable when we get back to the hotel and so that it is exciting. Like is there anything we could do whilst out that would help build up to it etc.
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 I wish LJ001 was a guy that lived next to me... and was interested in me... cause what she said was RIGHT ON!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): This sounds like a great night, I hope you have a great time together.
And to answer your question...
To be honest, I'm not sure about what you could do throughout the day, that wouldn't make it seem like you just couldn't wait to get yourself up her womanhood and have nothing else on your mind! But if you say little things like, ''I can't wait for tonight, the hotel should be great'' then this will genuinely build her excitement just for the hotel itself. And I can guarentee, sex will have definitely crossed her mind already, and if you say this, she may take it as ''I can't wait for tonight, being together in a hotel with nobody to stop us doing what we like, wll be amazing!'' anyway. It's just making comments throughout the day that bring her mind back to the hotel, and how great it will be, will build her excitement.
While watching the show, make sure to hold her hand, and keep looking over at her without fully turning your head. But make sure you catch her eye. And when you do, smile at her sexily. Sit close to her, and let her know that you're attention is not just on the show, but on her too. This will make her feel important, and will make her feel better during sex, as she'll realise that you're not just paying attention to her because you're making love.
As for being back at the hotel, (this sounds strange but..) keep your eyes wide and a faint smile on your face when she sees you. You want her to know you're happy and have the energy, and are pleased you're with her. Tell her how great the show was, and maybe lightly stroke her breast. Don't let this be blantantly obvious, and say ''I want to grab you're boob right now!'' as this will tell her everything she needs to know, and as you say, you want it to be secretive.
Imagine you're at a night club and are trying to pull a girl, but tease her at the same time and not just go up and embarrass yourself. Pretend you're a really amazing looking guy that attracts every person in sight without a cock. Make yourself feel confident, and treat your wife this way. This will make her feel special, and quite horny too!
As for the bedroom, foreplay is definitely the key here! Undress her, but slowly, and with stroking her breast first, and slowly running your hands from the top of her ribs to her hips. When you get to her hips, move your hands to her back and pull her in and kiss her passionately. Passionately doesn't have to be sloppy, remember this. Be sophisticated and sexy at the same time. You're not two teenagers with sex in mind, and determined to get it. Although, sex IS on your mind, and you are quite determined. LOL!
You know the rest - go through general foreplay, run your hands over her vagina when you're both fully undressed and stroke her and tease her down there. Feel her thighs, tell her she looks beautiful etc etc.
I won't go on and on - but I hope this has helped and I haven't just waffled. Have a great time :]
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