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writes:Oral after period?I finished yesterday, and when I was masturbating a bit came out, not loads barely enough to complain about. When I am aroused and wet, nothing comes out. My date with my boyfriend is Monday night, I don't see him that often and we want to be more physical now, and I want to give him a blow job and he said he wants to finger me and go down on me, but what if I have a bit come out again during this? it only happened twice today, when I felt down there. I don't want my first time being touched down there or gone down there to be horrific for him, I mean I am clean shaved and always clean, really spotless; just worry that a bit might come when he fingers me :( It's Saturday night now (Sunday) and nothing comes when I go the toilet now, or when I finger myself there isn't anything, there was just once today that happened when I did. This is so embarrassing talking about this, but I just not used to this, and am really excited to be with him as well.Will I be okay? I know my periods are fully gone, just that little bit that came, and just fear if it happens, a little comes out the night were together..I know I am being a fool saying all this, just wanted advice, I even bought new underwear and everything lol! he drives me wild, and am when I'm wet nothing comes out, just the fingering would be mortifying if he had it on his fingers, even just the little bit...but I really want this, because I want to go down on him as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): i found these things called "soft cups" and im not sure if they have them near you or anything like them near you but you could look them up, anyways you basically just put them in your vagina and as long as your flow isnt too too heavy and you change it regularly you shouldnt have to worry about anything leaking at all. the cup basically catches all blood so theres nothing to worry about.(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): you still have a little time before you see him, so don't panic about it.Clearly he'll know about the female body and a bit about periods, so he shouldn't be surprised when you tell him you have one! Just explain that last week was your week on, and that there may be a little still left inside you. give him that choice to touch you. Perhaps you should suggest fingers first? after all... it's better on a finger than in a mouth?!Don't forget...blood washes off anyway, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. I also find i'm more turned on around my time. maybe you could play that to your advantage?You said you havent touched before? I'm guessing a little bit of blood wont be stopping either of you!Enjoy x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 August 2011):
 Well, maybe by tomorrow it will be gone. But, lay down, don't sit over him. Because if you lay down, if there is something left it might not come out. But if you sit up while he licks you, or sit over his face, because of gravity it might come out.
However I'd warn him against it, and say he's free to go down there, but that he mustn't be shocked should anything come out, even if the chances are low. Better to warn him than serve him a surprise (which would just be rude).
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