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*issyounglove
writes:If you can see, im quite young, but I would really like a boyfriend. Everyone says i'm desperate, I probably am, but i really want one. Most guys that I was aware that liked me, had a problem or were real bad boys (which i love), so i need to find a great guy!!! I hope you can help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, missyounglove +, writes (28 May 2010):
missyounglove is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks anonymus, but in my country its illegal to have sex before the age of 16 or 18, and I dont plan on getting pregnant before uinversity!!! And also thanks to AuntyAlex for all that advice, it sounds great. And for rose pettle, also thanks for the advice. But everyone, i have had a couple of realtionships so far, and they have been great!!! and i am still friends with them, so im a bit stuck in the middle!!!
Thanks so much!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): Look I'm going to tell you from my experience. I am 20 years old right now and regret they way i lived my life at your age. I was boy crazy just like you and wanted a boyfriend so bad. I looked for one and i got one when i was 13. He was two years older than me and in a grade ahead of me. Well I'm ashamed to say i lost my virginity to this guy when i was 13. And it was a terrible decision. This guy would cheat on me all the time cuz i was the one who went for the "bad boys" too. I didn't go on any school trips because i was afraid he would cheat on me. I didn't want to be anywhere without him because i didn't want to feel the heart ache of being cheated on. After we broke up, because i found out he slept with my best friend and that was the last straw, i went out searching for boys again who never cared about me. Then surprise surprise i got pregnant when i was 16 because that's what happens when you have sex young. The guy i was with at the time was another "bad boy" and he was horrible to me and would say he was going to leave me every other day so i had to get an abortion, i was so scared.I'm not saying this will happen to you for sure, but this is what happened to me and if i could take it all back i would. i wish i would have enjoyed being young rather than chase boys. Be young have fun with your friends you will have plenty of time for boys later. And wait to have sex! I hope this helps. Best wishes!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (28 May 2010):
 If you go looking for love then it is harder to find! You just need to give yourself the option to meet people, for example talk to differnt boys from school who maybe you aint spoke to before and always be yourself dont try to hard. Go places with your friends where guys hang out and again just trying been yourself and talking to people and see if anyone takes a liking to you or you like them. hope this helps and if you wont to know anything else pleasee ask =]
ps i hope by boyfriend you mean holding hands and dates not sexual activites.
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