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*hristos
writes:we broke up 2 months before.we met again after a month and we said that we would have contact in order to understand if the things that made us break it,had been overcome.i couldn't though act to her like i didn't want her madly.so i told her to stop yhis contact.i didn;t call her for 10 days and two days before she sent me an empty sms at 2 in the midnight.i didn;t respond and yesterday she sent me another sms talling that she wanted to say hi or see me.i was drunk at that time,so i went to her house and told her to give me an answer and stop playing with me.she said she couln't still answer.so i left.she called me today and asked me to wait until monday for her answer because she would think of every aspect of our relationship.i told her that i won't put myself inthe condition of waiting for an answer and she replied that we wont have any contact and that if something changes she will have to find the courage to call me.i really tried to forget her, and continue my life.we were 2 and ahalf years together and we loved each other too much. i am 28 and she is 27.what should i do now?any guess of what her actions and sayings show????PLEASE HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Is she two-minded about whether she really wants to break up with you? If you are both sure you want to break up, then don't contact each other because that makes it harder. If she isn't sure, then maybe she needs some space to think about it, and maybe you do too.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 If she really wanted to be with you, she would be. I think she misses you and obviously when you are with someone a long time, and speak to that person every day, it's hard to just cut contact.
I would cut her out of your life a while, you're not over her and seeing her is not going to make getting over her easy.
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