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writes: I know this would be easier and you would have a different answer if you knew him but what do you do when your boyfriend messed up alot and you broke up alot but you really think he is different now? he gives you his password, tells you that you can call anytime. We are engaged now and he does seem different this time even my friend thinks so because she hangs out with us sometimes. When we break up he does tell different girls at a time he loves them but he tells them we are engaged now and have a baby on the way. If a girl calls his cell phone and i'm with him he tells them he is with his girlfriend. He checks his messages when he is with me. He did tell another girl he loved her in the beginning and can't wait to kiss her at the concert. He left my house to call a girl and left because i accused him then when we got back together he admitted it. He told me lots of girls cheated on him in the past. Is he scared i will hurt him? Should i just tell him he really does need help? What do i do? I wanna be with him. He is with me 24/7 except tonight he went to a concert but i didn't want to go because i don't like that music and i am sick. I know he really did go because his mom dropped me off at home then brought him since he lost his license. He called me like 3 times since they dropped me off. Do you think getting help will work? if he loved me, he wouldn't have had spent all the money on me for the ring. I have lots of proof he really did buy it the other night. HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): My gosh, you need alot of convincing to believe that he really loves you.If you cannot even relax in a relationship that you are in obviously something is wrong.It takes time and energy to build up a good relationship but the other partner will have to be trustworthy, you don't trust your man.Tell him how you really feel and take things slowly.
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