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I really miss my ex, but I have a new guy. What do I do?

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Question - (1 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2010)
A female age 26-29, *athryn123 writes:

Hey

so im a girl and i was going out with a guy for nearly 5 months when he broke up with me. he broke it off because he thought we had taken the relationship too far (sex) and it would be bad to continue.so he broke my heart and i didn't take it too well at first but i was getting better... i still LOVE him to bits and we shared so much. i thought we had such a strong connection. anyways a few weeks ago we were talking and he started blaming me for breaking up with him when it was 100% his idea. So now im in a new relationship with a guy i have some mild feelings for and i want to see where it goes but i really miss my ex. its driving me insane. help would be much appreciated.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010):

It’s crazy. I can not get over him. We had a really strong connection and I didn’t want to break it. I think also he broke it off because he was going to move schools but got rejected and now has to say at my school. And yesterday as I got onto the bus he came up to me and asked me how my new relationship was like he was mega jealous. I know Im really young and I might sound dumb and immature but I think this might work with some help from people out there. He was such a support for me, like I suffer from bipolar disorder and he has helped me TREMENDOSLY.

I had a really good relationship with his parents and siblings and we really related to eachother. i think that this could really get back on track with a little advice and tips on what i should say to him to make him seem like i really like him but dont seem desperate and weird.

Thanks K xx

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A female reader, KrissyA Canada +, writes (1 December 2010):

KrissyA agony aunti had the exact same thing! i was in a play and on opening night mason asked me out. so i was dating him. then about 6 days later my ex came to one of the shows. he was sweet, looked good, waitied for me after the show, and was amazing. He broke up with me cuz his mom didnt want him dating but when i got home a realized i like my ex not mason. i thought it through, and talked it through with my bff, and dumped mason after only a week. i had a bad feeling in my gut and it wasnt fair to mason if i was interested in someone else

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010):

He broke up with you babes, Its his loss. You have a new guy now. You should totally move on and completely forget the other guy. Loose all contact with you ex completely. You will soon forget about him. Hope this new guy treats you right. There aint many men out there that will. Im having issues myself. Your ex is only trying to blame you for breaking up because he wants you to feel guilty. He probably doesn't like the fact you have moved on with a new guy. Let him go. I Know it's hard but this new guy could be a really good thing for you. Hope this helps. Gemma

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