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writes:Me and this guy have been txting for about three to four years now and i have liked him for seven. Things have just started getting somewhere with us but he has a girlfriend now (he hasnt cheated though) he tels me he doesnt love her and that he doesnt find her sexually attractive when it comes to the bedroom. He says that it will be over with them soon so we can make a go of it, so im waiting till he becomes available but i am just scared he is leading me on and its not going to go nowhere, he tells me he things he is going to end up falling for me which i hope he does but i dont want to keep my life on hold for him for too long. I think i love him and really really want to be with him. what should i do??
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reader, Kenj +, writes (10 March 2010):
 I dont think he is trying to keep you sweet, if he loved the woman he is with now he wouldnt even be talking to you and certainly not mentioning leaving her.
Give him time, just keep casual contact with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe always comes and sees me and i get tingles everytime i see him. i dont know how long i can wait for him i always think about when we are together im just scared incase that is never going to be. i was talking to him the other night and he said that he wont be with her much longer, part ov me belives this but part of me thinks he is saying this just to keep me sweet!! im soo confused and i want him soo much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): Why is he wasting his time being with someone who he doesnt love nor finds sexually attractive????
I really wouldnt waste your time love. If you have had to post this on here it may be that you have the inkling that he is stringing you along??? Gut instincts are funny things when we want to listen to them....
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reader, Kenj +, writes (7 March 2010):
There should be a whole lot more to a relationship than just sex so I suspect its more than just the bedroom.
Its good he hasnt cheated on her which shows he is loyal, so yes he may be worth waiting for but if hes not free within 6 months then move on.
If you do start having a relationship with him just take it slow, get a feel and listen to your instinct.
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