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I really love him and I'm ready for sex but I'm really really shy.

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Question - (10 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 16 and I have been with my boyfriend who is 16 also, we have been together for 5 months. He has been away on vacation (mom wouldn't let me go) and he's coming back soon. We want to make up for lost time. I really love him and I'm ready for sex but I'm really really shy. Bleeding is a problem to me cuz I don't want to ruin my car or bleed on anything where ever we are. I also want to know any tips you can give me to feel more relaxed about it. I'm ready but I'm still super shy. I won't be when I'm alone with him but I still am probably really shy. Any tips? ANSWER SOON PLEASE! HE WILL BE IN TOWN SOON!

thank you for your help

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHi babe, well firstly chick, i think you need to let him know you are ready, but when it actualy comes to it, you need to relax, it will be very painful. If you are scared about the blood, maybe lay a sheet down therefore it wont damage it.. You need to make sure most of all ,you are ready and you are relaxed. Hope i helped, Mail me if you would like to talk x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

Talk to him about you being shy and maybe ask him to do things the way you want them to be done. Feeling in control will make you relaxed because your doing it how you want it to be done.

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