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writes:Im a bisexual 16yrs old guy i have a friend and he doesnt know that im gay. I cant tell if my friend is bi,....he has kissed me on the forehead and the cheek before but i dont know if its a big deal well anyways...i can pretent like im going to kiss him and wen i back off he'll start to laugh i got so close before that when i backed off he said "i was waiting of one" i dont know what to do its confusing because i dont want to make the wrong move you know....we can be layin down on his bed watching t.v and we can hold hands, i can rub his hands and it wouldnt bother him. I'll rub his face it wouldnt bother him either....im so confused really like him but sometimes i think im wasting my time...because i dont think he's gay....he does like have a girlfriend and spends time with her but sometimes that doesnt convince me. i add a couple details on how the situation is i just need some advice or help i just cant tell if he is bi or not?? Reply to this Question
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reader, dutchness +, writes (11 June 2009):
let me help you. he could b curious and he could be fighting it. u could have a chance with him.
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reader, mylove_5757 +, writes (21 February 2007):
 wow, i would say that guy is def bi. no straight guy would ever do the things you're saying you do with this friend. i wouldnt exactly tell you to go for it with him considering he has a girlfriend, but i would def talk to him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): I am a girl, so I don't know how much my advice will mean to you, but I was a teenager at one time. And I know that being a teenager, you go through many different stanges in figuring out who you are. A lot of guys grow up never holding hands, or touching in any sensual way, or even lying in bed watching TV together with another guy. So the fact that he is doing that with you, tells me that he is at least curious. If you really want to know forsure, you need to talk to him, in a not so threatening way. He has given you plenty of reasons to believe that he may be interested, so he shouldn't be shocked by it. Take it one sep at a time, and see howhe reacts to what you do. If he lets you kiss him on the lips, or if he initiates these types of things with you. But keep in mind that some teenagers are just curious, and he may be just seeing if it feels righ for him. Just don't get hurt if he pulls away at anytime. Every experience makes you the person you are. Hope this means a little something to you!
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