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writes: hi i am a 13 year old girl hu is having love problems i don't kno if should be asking for advice because im really young nd i dnt kno if a 13 year old be going through this kind of stuff bu anyway i really like my best friend he is the same age as me nd about a year ago i told him how i felt about him nd he sed he liked me to so we got together for a while nd we kinda broke up nd we never talked 2 each other for a few months nd i txt him 1 day nd we started to be friends nd we got bak together nd a good few times we hung out wit each other nd his friends alot with his friends but they were like so mean to me nd he wud be 2 nd then i wud go home and get a bit upset but when he would text me he wud be like so nice and kind i would ask him y was he so mean to me and why did he let his friends to he wouldn't text back for a few hours nd i would ask him again but he would just change the subject WHAT SHOULD I DO!! PLZ HELP.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (16 June 2010):
 He is seriously immature. He's 13, you're 13. Soon567 is right - he doesn't want to get teased by his friends.
I will add - girls mature faster than guys do. Girls reach puberty first. He might not even be completely ready for a girlfriend or even know what do to with the new feelings for girls that he's starting to feel.
I will reassure you that soon, girls will be the most important thing in this guy's life, and he'll stop being mean to you in front of his buddies. But it'll take time for him to mature.
I would suggest that you stay cool. Don't focus on this guy to be your only boyfriend. You're young, and you should be looking at lots of guys. Pretty soon, guys will start picking up on the fact that their buddies are now their competition and then be falling all over themselves to impress girls like you.
So be patient. Soon that little boy will become a man. :)
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