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I really like him but I'm scared of getting rejected again!

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Question - (8 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi

Im 14 years old nearly 15

like every teenage girl i ave a crush on a guy in ma school hes in the yer above me n 2 years older. i meet him at 1 of my neighbours (who is also a good friend of mine) 18th birthday party. at the time i thought he was soo cute i could hardly look at him i felt so embarrassed. but i had 2 look at him when my friend (who didnt no i lyked him) got me 2 dance wif her n den invited him 2 dance as well the reason she asked him 2 dance was cause he is her cousin. at this point i didnt no how old he was where he stayed or anyfing all i new was dat he was my friends cuz his name n he was cute.

this is where i need help!

afta a couple of months i had forgotten all about him untill i seen him at skool n i was stoped in my tracks cause i couldnt belive it. he smiled at me n i smiled back. when i got home i looked at my friends bebo n found his n added him thinkin he would neva accept. when i seen that he had i was over joyed! i looked at his pictures n the rest off his bebo but when it came 2 the comments there where a few from girls but i didnt ind cause i didnt no him dat well.

afta a while off seein him in skool i thought i had 2 take action so i sent him a bebo mail askin where i new him from he later replyed dat he was ma mates cuz. so 2 keep the covo goin i asked a few more questions but it went nowhere

afta a couple of months i saw his msn adress was on his bebo so i added him n a few weeks afta he accepted i asked who he was n we had our first proper convo inculdein him tellin me dat he might b leavein skool at the end of the year. about a week later i went in town 1 night n seen him there. he was wif a couple guys from ma year n they were goofin about n i keep laughin which was fine then ma mate keep sayin dat he was smilein at me n which eva direction we were goin in town he was goin the same way n started convincein me dat it was 2 c me. she sed his face lit up everytym he seen me but i didnt no wot 2 belive.

later dat night i seen him in town wif ma cuz n everytym ma cuz spoke 2 me he was there smilein at me n ma mate sed he wouldnt stp lookin at me. afta a couple of days i was delighted 2 c he was on msn again n asked him if he was in town wif ma cuz n he sed yeah n when i asked ow he new he waas ma cuz he sed he had asked who i was. i was delighted n we had another convo but since then nufin happened i fink he blocked me on msn but ma mate says he smiles at me in skool n ive seen him 2. most magazines tell u 2 talk 2 him but i cant i cum from a tiny island where every1 nos every1 u cant breath with ot sum1 noin bout it n ma experiance wif guys anit great the last n first person i snogged was 1 of the popular guy in skool who denind it the next day he was also friends wif ma brother n made ma brother belie him ove me n kept usein me wen he felt it but i lyked him so much i let him.

i dont want that 2 happen again but the guy i lyk doesnt seem lyk the type

but i dunno wot 2 do im scared of gettin regected n heartbrockn again

please help me!

any tips will b helpfull

thanx

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009):

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The Only Thing Is That He Hangs About with The Guys in my year n im soo scared hed say sumfing 2 dem

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A female reader, Charlotte xx United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2009):

i have the same problem and the boy is 2 years olda than me as well how weird. i found that if you privately tell him how you feel it worked for me and now we are together..

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