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writes: I have had a thing going with this one girl for a while now. She has had a lot of relationships in middle school, i did not. i went on a few dates with her, but when i was going to ask her out, she told me about her feelings for her ex (the only real relationship she had, ended in september). things went well between them for a night or so, but he wanted to just be friends. i went to a movie with her again tonight, and again i was going to kiss her, but again i just got the hug and kissed her on the cheek, what do i do? please help, oh, and when they when things went well for them, that was about a month or so ago.
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reader, uonlyliveonce +, writes (14 May 2006):
you dont want to rush this girl because if you do your only going to get hurt. stay good friends with her and she might get over her ex in time and be ready to start something new. it takes time to get over an ex and by not jumping into anything with you shes doing the right thing it would be much worse if she was to go out with you then leave you for her ex the first chance she gets, if its suposed to hapen it will.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (14 May 2006):
Why not give the girl some space to get over the ex...you don't want to be 'rebound' guy. You like her, she likes you so why not be friends for a while and see how everything develops from there? If you were mean't to be together then it will just happen with time.
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