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writes:Hello, I met this girl through a friend, i relly like her she is 14 in December and I'm 15 in March, is the age diffrence ok? I really like her and THINK she feels the same way? How can I tell? I need some advice on what to do, we don't hang around in the same groups so we don't see much of each other. The last time I saw her was last year, we have only met twice. I want to get to know her better and see her more but don't know how to, we do talk on msn but not to sure what to talk to her about as I have not seen her in a long time so has anyone got any help on what to talk to her about? please help the more answers the better
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): The age diffrence is no big dea. No need to worry there. Aksk her to hang out somtime . Ask her what she likes to do and if you both like somthing like going to the mall or to eat at a good resturant or somthign go for it . Ask her if she's interested in you. Ask her to go hang out with your group of friends or go hang out with her. Find out more about her and let her get to know a little bit about you. When you do see her in person tell her that she looks nice or somthing to that effect ( girls love that!) and laugh at all her jokes and make some of your own. And know if she isn't interested that you guys could become really good friends and thats always good too.
I hope this helped in some way .
Good luck !!! :)
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reader, tsurugi-ijin +, writes (23 March 2008):
 The age differnce is fine.Find out her intrests, the best thing to do is to get close to her as a friend, then see where things go from there. Friends are especially good if you dont hang about much like you said, if you use MSN thats a great way to chat to her, also you can joke about with the games, useful if you cant think of anything to say :) Arrange a trip with your friends to go ice skating or something similar and invite her and some of her friends, this way it doesnt look like a date but is a sport that can make you two get closer e.g. holding hands to help her stop falling over.All the best, Jin
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Okay well you could just say casual things, things you'd say to your friends. ''So how you doing?'' ''Hows your day been?'' ''Oh, have you seen that movie, ______? I went to see it and it was alright. But I really have to go see _____! Looks mint!'' Just random bits of conversation honey. Tell her things that have happened. If you're in the cinema or something together, tell her something funny that happened once when you went to the cinema with a mate. But to be honest, soon the conversation will pick up and the most important thing will be eye contact. So keep looking at her, act interested in the things she says, and even better if you can make her laugh. Good luck :]
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reader, lovinit  +, writes (23 March 2008):
age difference is good. at least in how i look at thingstake her to a movie, if she says yes almost instantly you have nothing to worry aboutelse if she takes time to think about saying yes then she might like you as a friendbut in either way you still have a chance depending on how the movie goes.i always sucked as conversation so i hope other members here might be able to help with that.note: conversation can make or break you especially since you haven't seen her in a while.by the way, are you an aeries? astrologically if she is a Sagittarius and if you are an aeries you are pretty good for each other ( just throwing that in because im an aeries and my sister keeps me up to date with that stuff...)let me know if this has helped you. if you have any questions or comments you can always personal message me.i will be awaiting your reply :)
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