I really dislike my boyfriend doing these chats on this site!

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Question - (28 May 2011)

5 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2011)

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ever heard of a website called blog tv? for those who haven't, its a website where you broadcast yourself live and anyone can come watch and chat to you. Well lately my boyfriend of two years has been doing broadcasts and i thought nothing of it, till i found out he was doing it most nights topless with an audience completely made up of women. Again, i wasn't really that bothered about this as i feel i can trust my boyfriend but all the girls he has become friends with are always on about how fit he is and how its a shame he's taken. One of them have taken a real interest in him and they even say i love you to one another in a 'friend way'. i don't feel i have to worry about this girl as she lives in the USA and me and my boyfriend are in the UK but she is planing on coming down to the uk sometime and wants to meet him. he says its just a laugh and for me to think nothing of it, he also has started to encourage me to do it with him for a laugh which makes me think that maybe this really is all nothing. im just worried about what he says and does on camera when im not there, and i worry some of these girls are being a little too friendly. i don't know if i should confront my boyfriend about me not liking him being on the site as i don't want him to feel like i dont trust him, but i dont think i can go on worrying about this anymore...help?

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A female reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (4 June 2011):

Dont watse another second, you need to seriously think of the consequences here! Your very young still, Have you done a pregnacy test? because if you have and it's possitive, you will really need to tell him. Do you have a family member you can consult with ? There are many options for you now if you are pregnant. But this is something you shouldn't be struggling with alone. Firstly what will you do if your bf does not want anything to do with the baby? will you be able to cope with bringing a child up on your own?

There is so much more life out there for you to experience yet, and being a single parent will limit this 90%.

But if you are and you decide to keep this child in hope he will stay with you, it only smells disaster, im sorry but true hun, you need to go to the DR's to make sure if you are or not, as not all over the counter tests are reliable. And then you can discuss your options with them. They are very discreet and it's private and confidential so they will not be telling anyone, your safe to talk with them ok ?

And you will also have to explain this to your parents, because they can help you, I know they may be very upset or even angry, but they are your parents, and will love you and only want what is best for you. There is a book you can get for free on line, if you decide you do want to keep it, ( if you are pregnant) and it's called 'The young woman's guide to a healthy pregnancy . But really think about this now because if you are and you leave it too long to decide, then your only options will be to keep it, or have it adopted. I dont think your BF will be ready to be a father right now at his age, but if he is then this is something you need to be telling him now, before its too late for anything else. I am here to talk to you any time you need me ok, But please dont leave it any longer get a test done a.s.a.p, the most important thing now is your health. xx