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writes:I really don't know what to think . So my boyfriend has been in Ukraine for a week now and he isn't really a party guy or so he told me. He has been going to night clubs non stop and stays out like really late but recently I started pushing him into having sex and since he is in Ukraine it would be better for him, I wanted him to have a sexual experience . We didn't have sex before anyway so he went and I asked him to hire a prostitute and he did.After he was done he blamed me and told me he didn't like it and felt really down and bad then like an hour later his cousin found two girls and they went to a club and he told me he was gonna sleep with one of them. I kept on calling he said he is drunk and cant talk and until now he hasn't replied me. I don't know what to do.Do you think he was making it up when he said he felt bad and down about hiring a prostitute? I'm really really deeply hurt and nothing can describe how I feel. I never thought he would act in that way he never paid much attention to girls but I don't know what changed. Should I leave him or be cold with him or what? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2013): I didnt force him its not like i told him ill break up with u if u dont . He seriously could've chosen not to i just brought it up a couple of times and he said okay i will besides he was leaving on the same day and it was the easiest option and i just wanted him to have sex to show whether he rly loves me or was i just an option for him. Anyway we made up and its all good now . Thank u for ur answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2013): Why did you pressure him into that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2013): So you wanted him to have sex, and then he did what you wanted and now you're upset because he's upset with you.
I think this relationship has sunk. Think about it from his point of view, if he pressured you into having sex with another guy - and you weren't comfortable about it, but did it anyway, you'd be pretty upset with him.
What's the difference between a prostitute and a party girl if you're happy for him to have sex outside of the relationship?
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