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writes: Two years ago I was in a threatening relationship and fell pregnant. Things had to stop so 6 months ago it finished. I'm currently 7 months pregnant and about 5 weeks ago I started seeing someone who I didn't treat very well but cared for and could see a future with. It felt like I was waiting for him to attack me, being the reason I started agruments for no reason. Nn the last few days he broke it off but wanted to stay friends but I knew he was too good to let go so I decided to write him a letter to explain why I treated him that way. During this time he was still contacting me and meeting up like nothing changed but one night things got a little too cosy. We started having sex but half way through he said "this is just sex". I immediately pushed him off. He understood why and applogised. He decided to leave and told me he'd write a letter to explain his feelings. 3 days had passed and still no letter. He still rings but can never meet and whenever we do, he goes home early and we'd never really talked. Should I still bother with my ex, who I still really care for and want to try again, or do I forget about him and concentrate on my un-born son?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): FORGET THE EX!!!! If that relationship left you feeling like you are going to be attacked, run far, far away and stay there. You obviously need to get serious,in person, counselling for that issue before you can ever get into another relationship.As for the new man, let him be, friends is all you really need right now.
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