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writes:Hi, I'm 15, never had a boyfriend (and believe me, in my school and in this day and age, its a big deal) or even been kissed. Not trying to be conceited, but I'm fairly nice, smart, funny, and i've been called pretty and cute before by a lot of guys. I've had guys like me before, but I never like them back. They just don't appeal to me and I'm usually friends with them and again, not trying to sound conceited, but I'm popularish (like not POPULAR popular but I'm above the middle popular people) and they're usually below me (not the reason I don't go out with them. I'll tell you why in just a second!) The guys I like are usually people i barely know. I'm usually too scared to approach them and I hope for one of those love story movie senarios to play out where he likes me even though I'm quiet. I tried becoming friends with one guy I liked, but i started to turn into an insulting b*tch. I took a little joke way too far and we are still sort of friends (we joke around a lot) I doubt I can ever fix it. Anyway, I asked myself why i can't just be regular friends with a guy I liked and I realized I'm scared of him finding out i like him, he doesn't like me back, and it ruins everything. How can I fix this? Oh and by the way the reason I couldn't go out with those guys was because I was friends with them and as you can see, i can't bring up feelings for a guy whose my friend.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 December 2011):
 awww this just reminded me there where no girls in my school.. well i had forgotten about that.. it wasnt much of a school though but a place of higher learning well say any whoo, I say if you like someone go for it embarrassment is temporary regrets can last a lifetime.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 At your age all of this is normal. I'm a lot older, but I'm kind of the same. When I really like a guy I get shy and can't look at him...
You got to use your eyes more. The eyes are a good tool for telling a guy you like him. You stare at him (you can even smile) then look away and be shy like before. It's a way for shy people to say "hey I like you, but I'm nervous and embarrassed about what you may think". About acting like a bitch, maybe you could tell him you had a bad day or something, tell him your sorry, but you were stressed out, and now you feel like a right fool, and your sorry if you insulted him in any way.
PS: Remember, movies are not real life. Them people are paid to act, somebody writes the script, and everything always turns out right. Real life is much more complicated.
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