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anonymous
writes:I have a neighbor who wants to have sex with me. Im not attracted to him, i just think he's a good friend. Today he came over for dinner and refused to go home after that saying we should have sex first. I lied that we will do it tomorrow so he has gone hom excited, eagerly awaiting his long awaited opportunity.How can i tell him i didnt mean what i said,without hurting his feelings or disapointing him? I dont want to lose his friendship, he is very good company and makes me laugh all the time. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 He’s NOT a good friend dear. HE badgers you for sex and makes you feel so uncomfortable that you have to lie to him.
THIS IS NOT HOW WE DEFINE FRIENDS.
I think you should call him or text him and tell him you no longer wish to have contact with him since he bullies you about sex and you don’t want sex and if he can’t stop bringing it up there is no need for you two to have contact.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (14 January 2013):
 Hi
You see him as just a friend but your teasing him - you know he wants sex so why pretend you do too.
I would suggest you end the friendship or cool it down ALOT and see him less.
Its a silly and dangerous game your playing here and I hope he doesn't turn nasty when he realises.
You need to make it loud and clear,no sex, ever. And STOP playing games with this guy.
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