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writes:Hi I'm a girl of 15.. I met a guy since the begining of last year. He is in my school bus but we are not in the same school. From the start I had not noticed about him, but after sometime he started to smile at me and so on.. and I really had a crush for him.. I can't stop thinking about him. I really loved him from until this year.. but he never make the first step. One day when I was not in the bus, he told my friend that he was interested with me. But nothing happens, and then one night O chatted with him on facebook... we were talking about all and nothing. I've asked him how to tell a boy about my feelings for him. Then we have talked and in the conversation he told me that he never make the first step. I was like ''hmm okay I understand now". I was prepared to tell him that I loved him but he told me something terrible !!! :( he told that he is leaving the county for ever!! That he will never return! I was very very sad when he told me that.. so I decided to keep my feelings for me until now!! I never told him that I love him! I thought I was able to forget him but I think about him everyday. So can anyone help me about this ? :/ I'm lost.....what should I do ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2013): Hi,
I know it's hard, but please tell him you like him! Even if nothing comes of it, at least you won't live with regrets.
I liked a boy when I was 15 too. He would smile at me and I would smile back but neither of us were brave enough to say anything other than "Hi." This went on for 2 years until he moved away.
I always regretted not telling him how I feel. Please don't do the same thing I did.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (5 February 2013):
Your options are:
1.) Get over him. Shouldn't be too hard since your relationship only consisted of smiles and Facebook chats.
2.) Convince his parents to stay in the country.
A reminder about "love": save that word so that when you use it, it really means something. Telling someone you don't know that you love them isn't a great idea for a number of reasons. The one you could most relate to is that it might scare them off because they'll think you're waaaay to serious.
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reader, dumbledorf  +, writes (5 February 2013):
it's like reading my own story. Don't worry: I fell hard wrote poems to him,about him even painted a portrait of him,never told him and not a soul, he really moved :-( I was crushed. Anyway please don't walk the same path, be honest and tell him how you feel! It's a win lose situation if you don't tell him you will never know what could have happened, if you tell him and he says he doesn't feel the same you'll have to deal with rejection.. Which is better than not knowing what if.. And the third but best is if he says the same maybe that makes him change his mind of moving, and even if he moves he would maybe move back moving doesn't for certain mean hell be gone forever, and in anycase long distance with the one you love is better than having no relationship at all with him.Yes to tell him will be very difficult for you rejection is ouch but atleast then you'll know you did it then it will be easier to move on because then he doesn't deserve you!
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