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writes: I was wondering ,if you can give me your opinion on that, if this marriage can be saved, or it is worth staying in it . I tell you the good and bad. GOOD-cornerstone of family financially-he is here when I need him, if Im sick or crisis-He helps his children financially-he used to be my lover.-he is kind, not abusive. he says he loves me..(I.m sure, there is more, but I guess it is showing the facts) BAD-not affectionate with me, actually does not show any sexual desire, or need for sex, doesn't even hug me, or notice me.-works all the time 80-90 hours on computer, no porn ,i see him he is home-cant emotionally connect to his sons, and they need him,so many problems, what linked to his avoidance-does not do anything around the house, as he works all times-does not look for any fun with me in future-very puzzling ,sometimes in times of big arguments , some weird thing came out, like "i have bigger secrets, like that, but you couldn't handle them."there is much more puzzling things, but i never really could prove him wrong. He seems to be a trickster, i truly dont understand him, and suffering with him years ago now. I dont know how to go on. Is there any good advice for me? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2010): Hey sisteractually you are quite lucky to have him. Most of the womens are not so lucky to get the guy like him.There is no reason to worry on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Read about Aspberger's in adults. It sounds like that could be a possibility.
http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=895
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