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writes: Am I overreacting about my BF hanging out with his friends more lately?My BF and I have been dating for 3 years. He has been hanging with his buddies alot more lately because he just bought a house. I would appreciate guys opinions on this. What are the annoying things that would turn you off about a girl in regards to your guy friends? and how she acts? You want someone who can hang with you and your buddies right? SOmeone your friends think is great? I need to understand the male pysche better.THANKS! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, SeanG +, writes (5 May 2007):
Basically nothing turns me off, because i'ma 36 year old guy who would be smart enough to put his ladies wants before 'my mates'. Seriously if he's hanging out with mates and not seeing you more than or equal to three times a week, then you have a concern. If he's not keen to see you or you suggest something and he's vague...be concerned.
You need to trust him, get to know his 'mates', if their dicks then you have to ask yourself what is in him that he likes bad friends??
As you go through life try to pick someone who doesnt need their mates as much, loves u heaps and could do with seeing them occassionally. A guys friends are a good description of what he is like ok!
Good luck
Sean
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