I need to give our relationship some freshness, any ideas?

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Question - (8 August 2009)

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A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my bf n i have been together for almost 6 months, even though it hasnt been long but it's getting kinda serious

i know he loves me but still i cant trust him bcz of his history in cheats

aw our relation is coming to a dead place where everything has become a routine

and i want to do something to freshen up our relationship

what should i do???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

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thanks alot for ur answers

well he have cheated before but not on me...on his x girlfriends and i'm always affraid he would do that to me.

about surprising him... i always surprise him with little things and the last time was when we celebrated our 6th months together

one more thing, he always thinks that i'm not sexually attracted to him...well i am but m always shy to make the first move so he says that it makes him feel that i dnt wana b close to him or that i'm not attracted to him

it's all getting worst

i'm loosin him more each day and i dnt know what to do

i have never loved anyone before and i have never cared

the first time i wana make things work....everything is screwed up

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

Ask him he wants to go somewhere far away that you've never been before. Talk to him openly about your relationship whether he wants to continue further. If he's reluctant to answer you or not sure then he might not be ready to be serious with you. If he cheats on you before I have to think about that for second, do you really want him though ? He will always cheat on you when he gets a chance. He might change who knows, if he really loves you and realizes that you are the one for him forever.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

try living it up by suprising him with things to show that you love him or changing the routine. if you are looking to freshen it up sexually you could try to fufill each other fanatasies or try other things such as role play

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