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writes:LADIES!!!! I have a problem when it comes to getting intimate. So a couple nights ago I was studying at this girl's dorm and she was just asking for it, her shirt was low, she had this tight gymnastic (I guess) pants on... anyway she was smoking. She was on her bed and I was right next to it in a chair, and it was prime time to make a move but I can't make the move from talking to being intimate. This is some bullshit anyone have any tips. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Ok, another guy's answer and not the ladies' view you asked for: Best advice, based upon personal experience is - say nothing, just move towards her in a slow but positive manner, put an arm around her and gently nibble and kiss her lips, then the messy part will soon follow, be assured.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): It's quite dangerous to smoke in bed and you should tell her to be careful otherwise the whole house could go up in flames.
As for getting intimate, you could suggest that it's rather hot in there and would she mind if you took some clothes off and joined her on the bed to cool off a little, preferably with a mischievous grin on your face. Then it's just a matter of some discreet fondling, groping, swapping spit and getting down to business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Coming from a guy, if you are in that position and YOU KNOW she would be ok with it, just ask her/say it. I've kinda been in a similar position and I just said 'I want to kiss you' and then kissed her. Simple as that.
If you don't do anything you will soon find yourself in the dreaded and unescapable friend zone
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): First of all, just because a girl is dressed in tight gymnastic pants doesn't mean ANYTHING. That is the style right now. And they are comfortable. You need to look more at her body language NOT her clothes.Then if you do want to be intimate, it won't be difficult because you will know she wants it. Then it will be EASY!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): "she was just asking for it??" .That sounds like male chauvinism.I might look sexy in a sack cloth.Does that mean I am asking for it?.
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