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writes: I started seeing this guy recently who is a bit older (he's 24, I'm 18)and so understanably he's had much more sexual relationship than me. I've only had sex with 2 guys, only had one sexual relationship (and even then I'd use the term losely!)Anyway, I really like him but hes so much more experienced and has so many more points of comparison/ expectation etc. I know that he'd be understanding, but I don't want him to have to be! I wanna live up to his expectations, or else he's going to get bored of me. Trust me, he's hot, and everyone wants to be with him, so right now I'm pretty amazed that he wants to be with me. But I just know that once we start having sex (which'll probaby be soon coz he's very sexually minded) that he's gonna find it a huge anticlimax and go and find someone who is already good enough for him...Basically, sexual tips and fast please!!! How can I satisfy him??
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2006): It takes two to Tango, and if he's half the "find" you make him out to be, you should have no problem satisfying him despite your lack of experience (a truly great lover gets others to rise to his level of performance). So relax; however, if his sole interest is a girl who's never going to bore him maybe he isn't quite the man you think. Just wish him good luck in finding this girl.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (2 April 2006):
firstly experience does make you a great lover. you could be sexual active for 30 years and still not be a great lover. to me a great lover is knowing what your patner wants and being able to give to them. a great lover is a person is willing to experitment in order to satisfie your partner. i'm only 17 and only been with my one other and my boyfriend where my boyfriend as had loads of experience but he said that to him i'm a great lover because i'm willing to experitment with him.
just try new things with your boyfriend, try different type or foreplay, try doing the aplhabet of postions.
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