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writes:hi, here's what i'd like to know. i been with this man for going on three years,when we first go with one another this man made me feel good about myself he told me how nice i looked when id dress up and put make up on ,he made me feel like he really wanted me when it came to making love,over time thats all changed,he doesnt even notice me anymore,it gotten to the point when we make love its like hurry up and get it over with,and when i want it well let me just say ive been rejected by him so many times i dont even like sex anymore.its caused me to really let myself go i dont even try to dress up or even bother with putting on make up i weigh more now than i ever have.meanwhile he tells me how much he loves me every day,he comes stright home from work and i really dont think he cheats on me but he just no longer makes me feel good about myself,i work in the yard and garden and cook and keep the house clean,i take his boots off,rub his back ,run his bath water,start his car for him in the winter,send him emails,fix his plate and cut up his meat,you name it,he works 7 days a week and spends all his free time with me at home but its like i haf to beg him just to hold me all i want is just for him to make me feel wanted for something more than someone to work all the time cooking cleaning raising a garden keeping the yard and meeting all his needs. i feel that he takes me for granted.he buys me anything i want but what i need are the things money cant buy,i need for him to make me feel like a woman again and that im wanted ,what do you guys think i should do what can i do i love this man with all my heart but im tired of feeling the way i do
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (14 May 2010):
 have you spoken to him about this? You certainly can't go on the way you are now so I think it's time for an honest chat.
Maybe he doesn't even realise how bad things have got, you say he works seven days a week so it could be that he's blind to what's really going on here.
Sit him down and tell him all the things you've told us on here. If he loves you he will want to work on this and make a change.
You deserve to feel loved. You deserve to feel special. If you talk this through with him and he doesn't make a change then you're going to have to ask yourself how long you're going to put up with this.
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