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writes:I have a good deal of friends but most of them love to go out only at night on weekends, I dont like it at all as I like doing things during the day and my new job gets me very tired, I still contact friends on the time and for a coffee sometime but I feel a bit blackmailed in the sense they only want to see me at night and I prefer to sleep and enjoy the day, I sometimes go anyway but feel sort of trapped in this situation I proposed a picinic in my parents country house and a barbacue and they organised a dinner so that I decided not to go but gave an excuse instead of complaining, It gets difficult for me to meet new people but a t work and we live a bit apart, any tips??? I think a relationship wit a guy could help but I do not know they right person by now, or at least I haventI think this could turn into a bit depressing and dont really know how to manage but as I do I would appreciate any ideas thanks a lotlove
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (18 April 2007):
 Hi Astrid
I have missed you!
I think having a picnic is a brilliant idea now cos we are approaching summer and the weather is nice and warm at least here in the UK.
I'm afraid alot of people still enjoying going out in the evenings.Perhaps u could try selling your idea to them some more. Let them know that sometimes you will rather have some events during the day. You can compromise sometimes and go with them at night too.
The right guy do come along when alot of people least expect.It seems you have a good social life just give it time you will meet someone soon.Alof of people get excited meeting so one nice and too much enthusiasm. Try not to do this cos it tends to scare some guys away. This doesn't mean you shouldn't show you are interested, but let them do the chasing.
I hope this helps. I'm less busy during this week feel free to drop me a message anytime.
Love. Kelly
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