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writes:I need some insight on this issue of mine.There's a boy that i like. One day a girl in my class shouted across the room to one of his friends that he had asked a certain girl in my class out. (this is what i thought she said) I was heartbroken. Of course i've hardly ever talked to him. But after I found this out, I decided I was over him and wouldn't pay attention to him anymore. Even if that wasn't what she really said, i still wanted to be over him due to the fact that i know i'll never get the courage to go up and talk to him, so nothing will ever happen between us. But I convinced myself i didn't like him anymore and it actually worked for a couple weeks, I was doing really well without him and i actually believed i was over him, but then just the other day, as i was coming around a corner, i almost ran into HIM and my heart literally STOPPED. That proved to me right there that i am definitely not over him. what do you have to do to get over someone? I'm sick of just admiring him. But i can't make him like me. but it's hard for me to let go. what should i do?thanks
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reader, DanniiAvril  +, writes (13 May 2009):
Help im so confused... im in love with my childhood love! Wen i move on n leftd him behind he's been gettin bck in touch n ive been pushin him away. It's been like 5years now n ive moved on n e says e still has these feelings 4 me n misses me but he jst wana b mates. Its realy doin my head in... He always stares at me wen e see me with ova lads n e wnt admit e loves me... Am i losing it or is it real?? Shud i let him bck in my life n 4giv him?? E always makes me jealous!!! I jst dnt kno wat 2 do!!
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reader, misswalston +, writes (13 May 2009):
 I feel your pain little sister, but let me explain something to you. You will meet a lot of HIMS and you will swear up and down that he is the "ONE", but you are only 13 and not that your feelings are not real, but trust me, this will pass and you have plenty of time to really see what it feels like to care and want someone the way you are feeling right now. Go out and have some fun with your girlfriends. Go to the mall, go get your nails and your hair done. Do things to keep yourself busy. Get back into you and I promise you it will get easier...Take care little sister.....
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reader, DanniiAvril +, writes (13 May 2009):
Help im so confused... im in love with my childhood love! Wen i move on n leftd him behind he's been gettin bck in touch n ive been pushin him away. It's been like 5years now n ive moved on n e says e still has these feelings 4 me n misses me but he jst wana b mates. Its realy doin my head in... He always stares at me wen e see me with ova lads n e wnt admit e loves me... Am i losing it or is it real?? Shud i let him in bck in my life n 4giv him?? E always makes me jealous!!! I jst dnt kno wat 2 do!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): well.... in the first place you should have gotten the right information bout what the girl shoutted. you never know there could have been a chance. second how can you like someone without talking to them? i believe that is not possible, if you are never going to have the guts to talk to him than why even bother to like him. 3rd. you can't get over someone in just a couple of weeks, nd there is not a mannual that tells you every step of how to get over someone. with the time you will get over him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Has he ever looked at you in the corner of he's eye, you know a side glance. If he has he checked you out. this is a great sign. the next question is he shy like you? if he is you may have to get his attention(try a letter or do what I did play 007 and get that phone number!). if he isn'e shy don't go there that spells trouble cause he will use you and you may not develop a healthy relationship with him. The goal of dating it that you should always keep in mind you are looking for a husband. Does he fit that profile?
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