A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey allbascially im just want some help. i always read about how when females have orgasms its really powerful and stuff. i used to think i was having an orgasm but recently im not so sure anymore. My friend was telling me how sex is so much better with her new bf n i was like how? and all she said was he makes her orgasm and the other bloke didnt....so ive only have 1 sexual partner still with him and it got me thinking...mayb i havent had a true orgasm.just wanted some females to let me know how i know and what its like for themand please dont give me advice on just having to learn about myself and explore i have done many times.....thanks
View related questions:
orgasm Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (8 June 2008):
It feels different for different people and sometimes the orgasms for one person are different. I have orgasms where i soak the sheets but dont really feel anything and have ones that feel like my body just relaxes ones that feel like pulsing pleasure and ones that almost feel like sharp shoots of pain. You might just be experiencing weak orgasms!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): It is possible that you are having orgasms but that they are just clitoral or just small, maybe you are . An orgasm is different for every person and it takes different thing to help each person to achieve the most powerful orgasm for them.
Try pleasuring yourself with a shower head. This is often a good way for women to achieve orgasm. Experiemnt with what you like... Try different things with yourself... Try not to push yourself to orgasm because it will probably make it harder for yourself. Try and relax.
Keep trying new things with you boyfriend too.
I'm a little worried that you were suggesting maybe it would be better if you found another sexual partner... I don't think that's a great idea (unless of coarse you are unhappy in the relationship for other reasons), just give yourself time.
Lots of Luck. Emivia.
...............................
|
