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writes:I met this girl the other day when my friend took me to another friends house. We all started to play poker, and she didn't know how.being the great guy I am, I volunteered to sit out a few hands and teach her! Now, we began talking as I'm doing so, and she broke the contact barrier frequently and almost immediately. I learn her name and some stuff about her, and then she leaves with her friend an hour later.So, I sent her a friend request on Facebook. No response.Judging by that, I got rejected right?A few days later I see her in the cafeteria at school and we talk for a bit. Since then, she's gone out of her way to say hi to me.No number yet, no Facebook, just old-school face to face.. But in todays standards that would mean I got rejected.I need your opinions on the matter!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 December 2011):
 Now if she were to ignore you every time you see her, then I would say it's rejection.
Just because she hasn't accepted your incoming friend request, yet? No. Don't take FB too literally.
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (12 December 2011):
 Some people hardly ever use facebook. Several people I know go on maybe once every fortnight! Have you asked for her number or offered her yours? If she rejects you she could just want to be friends right now, but that's better than nothing. You'll probably see her about more through other friends so don't rush just take your time =]
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (12 December 2011):
Some people hardly ever use facebook. Several people I know go on maybe once every fortnight! Have you asked for her number or offered her yours? If she rejects you she could just want to be friends right now, but that's better than nothing. You'll probably see her about more through other friends so don't rush just take your time =]
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (12 December 2011):
 Hi,
Since you guys see each other at school, approach her as you normally do, make normal conversation and ask her casually that few days ago you made a friend request on Facebook? Ask her, did you see that? Tell her that if she didnt like, or want to just let you know, because you hate bothering people and you respect her decision. Tell her that you enjoy meeting her and that you would like to become friends? Nothing wrong with that.... You are not pressuring her, being clingy or creppy...
Just a reminder, people get rejected everyday. Friendly request, dates, jobs, etc... Some people male/female might not like you for no reason, but it's all part of life. Yes, it's rejection but you shouldn't take it so serious... Happens and it's part of life. When you want or expect something in your life and you don't get it, don't be sad, loose hope, or feel down... We all been through that, it's ok, you get stronger, you learn from it, and it makes you a better person.....
Everybody in the world gets rejected... But, don't use that word too much, because it's too strong of a word.... Hope this helps... :)
Good luck/best wishes...
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