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41-50,
*hristina davies
writes:Hi, I wanted some advice if there's any out there, I've been with my fiance 4 nearly 3 years, he says I'm the love of his life and he's never loved anyone like he loves me, but there is just one problem - our sex life! He never wants sex, maybe just once a month if I'm lucky, is it me because it really does make me feel like it's my fault.I love him so much, he's my world but I just need more sex. Anyone got any advice or ideas on what I can do? Thanks.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Some people fall in love for reasons other than physical attraction and chemistry. This could be the case for your b/f. He loves you but he's not attracted to you. Does that make sense? Believe me it happens sometimes. Also some people just have low sex drive, could be a self esteem problem, maybe he's jacking off to porn and you just don't know it, then there's nothing left for you. I think it's very unusual for a man in his age bracket to not want sex practically every day. There's something going on with him. Good luck.
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Maybe he has a problem that he is just to embarassed to tell you about or maybe you could spice things up with surprising him when he gets home from work with a kinky outfit or watching porn together, it's not your fault some guys just aren't that sexual ask him if he has any hot fantasies and if he'll share them with you.
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