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writes: Hello again my gf has many male friends I do feel uncomfortable with it but I usually don't let it get to me but she always meets a new guy and sometimes she tells me how they act and I feel like they start liking her now I know you all will tell me to trust my gf and I do trust her but I don't trust these guys mainly because I don't know them one guy got me a little scared because he became a little violent with her and that really got me mad. Also if her guy friends make sexual jokes is there any truth behind these "jokes" she says that's the way they are but sometimes she cannot tell if someone likes her untill the signs are made clear so what are signs that a guy would like her? Thanks again people of DearCupid
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 November 2010):
 I know you don't trust the guys, but what do you think they will do? Gang up and use their strength to overtake her? I know you don't want to hear "trust your girlfriend", but sometimes you just HAVE TO. She will do the right thing. She will say no if the situation arises. All guys make sexy jokes, so it's hard to say if they have an ulterior motive. My gut says, guys will be guys. Don't worry about which ones "like her" according to the signs. Signs mean nothing, your girlfriend means everything. Who knows who like her? That doesn't matter. SHE LIKES YOU and that is the bottom line.
Even if she's not great at picking up hints, if she is devoted to you than she will not do anything you would not approve of. I know this is not what you want to hear, and I am so sorry but... you just need to trust her. I can think of no alternative. You can not prevent her from meeting friendly new people, you are simply going to have to trust her to do the right thing if things get uncomfortable. You will not always be there to "protect" her. Good luck, sweet!
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