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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 4 months now ( been together for 7) and as we got closer i explained that i only orgasm when my clitorios is rubbed etc.. so now my boyfriend has become obssesed with having sex doggy style as this means he can also rub my clitorios whilst having sex.. I dont mind doing this, and i no hes doing it mainly for me ( even though he likes this position too) but im getting a bit fed up of being bent over.. Could anyone tell me any sexual positions where he could rub my clitorios while having sex which doesnt invlove me being bent over facing the floor lol?! and does anyone no any positions that would make him recieve maxium pleasure? Thank you xx
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reader, HeliosHelana +, writes (19 August 2008):
Ever thought about using sex toys at the same time?
Men generally aren't too keen on the idea of vibrating cock rings, but you don't know until you ask. There are plenty of items out there that were pretty much designed for women who don't orgasm from penetration alone.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (19 August 2008):
Just to add to "Dr. Phil's" suggestions, you could also lay on your sides with him behind. Lift one leg upward a bit and either of you could add the desired stroking. No 'Yeehaaa!' is required with this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Well, I have the same thing, rarely orgasm from penetration alone... but I very very rarely do it doggy style. Usually I either provide clitoral stimulation myself (during sex) or my boyfriend does it, when hes on top or I'm on top, any position really. How come you guys have to go doggy style??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Why not give your clitoris a strum yourself? If he's on top it's dead easy, and you can slide your finger(s) in and out of your vagina as well, thereby giving him a bit of extra stimulation too. It doesn't have to be doggy style! I have this mental picture of you bending over staring at the floor now. Why not bend over the table instead? If it HAS to be doggy fashion you could put your favourite magazine on it and have a good read at the same time!
Anyway, another method is for you to ride him cowgirl fashion - on your knees and on top - you can get at your clit that way too and control all the action, particularly if you order him to stay still and stop thrusting upwards. Don't forget to shout 'Yeehaaa!' at the appropriate moment.
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reader, hurleyflipflop +, writes (19 August 2008):
i would say the spooning position because that gives access to your area easily with his hands & you can still see each other...not so impersonal like "doggy style"
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (19 August 2008):
hi their here is a web site that gives excellent explanation of positions also response from people who have tried them so they can tell you what they think.. hope that helps aphex. http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
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