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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years now and he has been perfect but he's now starting to taking me for granted. I.e. he used to buy me tiny gifts like a chocolate bar, or send a nice phone message during the daytime, now if this happens it's rarely and only if I mention it. I understand the "honeymoon" period is over, but I never changed. I still do those little things, making him things, buying him little things, sending the nice messages. I've spoken to him about it, and he says it's not a conscious thing he's opted not to do, and he improved, but it's just gone back to how it was and I miss the old him :( What can I do?
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reader, Tata-marie101  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 awwwwwwww xoxoxoxoxox hunni i feel for yhoo i really do babe xxxxxxxx i would hug yhoo if i could :(
babe i know you have tried talking to him but try again but this time say " hunni please i want yhoo just to listenin i love yhoo you know tht but i want the guy back that i fell madly in love with please i cant go on like this its killing me inside if you love me yhoo will be the way you were before please because if you dont change back i dont know how much more of this 'changing i can take' its all up to yhoo now i will leave yhoo to think about it" then walk it and look back at him
and hopefully he will make the right desscion okaii and i know what you are thinkin what if he doesn't make the right desscion well what happens happens yes i might hurt but if he isnt going to change himself for you then you shouldn't have to put up with it ?
darlin i hope i have helped
hopee things go well :)
xxx
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reader, gleason +, writes (1 April 2010):
alls you can do is hope he changes or maybe spend time apart for him to miss you. let him now how you feel and if u dont like the answer no matter how hard it maybe stop doing so much and let him come to you
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