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*aggie00
writes:I am 30 now and I was with my ex off and on for 7 years. I am now engaged to a different man but I am having a really tough time forgetting about my ex. My ex and I broke up because we come from very different backgrounds and it would have been way too hard to make it work. Our relationship was already starting to fall apart because my family just wouldnt accept the fact that we were together. He would be very cruel to me at times and blame it on the fact that he hated feeling rejected by my family. I saw this as a sign of how it probably would be in the future, so I left him. My fiance is great..but very different from my ex. I think sometimes the drama of my ex and the passion that came along with it is what I miss. Twisted, I know. I dont want my ex back. I cant even count how many times I went back to him after leaving him for being a complete ass. I think thats also why I find it so hard to just let go. Over the 7 years we spent together, every time we broke up I would go running back. It became something we just did. I want my relationship with my fiance to last forever. I want to be happy and at peace with my thoughts. I need to get him out of my head and my everyday life. Help.
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reader, maggie00 +, writes (20 September 2011):
maggie00 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@spanner28- I appreciate you taking the time to share your advice. I really can't stand these feelings and they are starting to affect the way I treat my fiancé. I'm starting to feel like I may be making a mistake by marrying this man. How crazy is that?! Ruining my future for my past. I need and I must get out of this funk.
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reader, maggie00 +, writes (20 September 2011):
maggie00 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@spanner28- I appreciate you taking the time to share your advice. I really can't stand these feelings and they are starting to affect the way I treat my fiancé. I'm starting to feel like I may be making a mistake by marrying this man. How crazy is that?! Ruining my future for my past. I need and I must get out of this funk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): I know how your feeling as i am also in a situation where im still so deeply inlove with my ex and miss the passion and fire we shared but my current partner is able to give me the financial and emotional stability my ex lacked
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