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writes: I think that I may have FINALLY made a decent female friend. It's been such a long, long time since I've had a loyal, sincere one. She's my boyfriend's best friend's ex girlfriend. The ONLY thing that's putting me a little off is the fact that she likes to go out drinking and smokes weed. Now, I'm not judging, I have foolishly dried doing those things and didn't like them. But she's sort of habitual about them, so I don't know how to react if she asks me to do something with her, I usually give in very easily and she knows I used to want to do this kind of stuff. On one hand, if I have some "fun" with her going out and drinking, my boyfriend will get upset, on the other hand, I really don't want to. So what do I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 If you like her as a person well that's great, what she does is her business but if you don't feel like you want to drink or smoke well then just be straight with her and tell her you are not interested in that, but you can both find other things to do together, this is only one aspect of her life, if you yourself don't want to do these things then just avoid this by not hanging out with her when she is doing it.
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