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*ummer_love5467
writes:Someone please help me.I'm afraid of losing him. I love him more than anything in the world, but I make him miserable.He says he is getting tired of it after 9 months. Not me, but the way act sometimes. I flip out when he doesnt text back immediately and i bitch all the time when he's with his friends.We used to fight everyday, until we had sex and then we got along perfect for 2 months and got into again. We haven't had sex since my first time. If we have sex again, will it be better again?ANd someone give me some tips on not behaving the way i do.
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reader, summer_love5467 +, writes (20 April 2009):
summer_love5467 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I have no reason not to trust him. But I have trst issues. I've been cheated on by every guy i've ever dated. For the meantime, should I just take a breath and give him some space for awhile till he cools down?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Well, I am the same as you. I've learnt to think about what I do before I do it and control myself! I also find that speaking to my boyfriend helps, when we are having a conversation we use a technique which makes things easy- we say what the problem is, how we feel about it and then we discuss how to resolve it! We do this for every little problem, then the air is clear and we don't have to fight. You just need to stop bothering him when he is with friends, just turn your phone off and keep yourself busy, or relax and have a bath. You need to work out any under lying issues there are, do you trust him properly?? It will take time and effort but with his help you will be able to change your attitude and control your behaviour. X
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