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writes: I am a little unsure as to when I lost my virginity, sounds stupid but let me explain. At 22, I tried to have sex with a new girlfriend, she had a problem, vaginismus, which prevented full penetration. Although I did try and part of my penis did go in, but it was too painful to have sex for some time after. At this age, we did everything else sexually, oral sex, and in my mind the fact that part of my penis went in, I lost my virginity there and then, even though the ejaculation was outside, would be good to hear some views on this. What do you think? It makes me feel better to think this was the case as it took some time for her to sort this problem. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): na man, i think ur still a virgin. If u didnt fully penetrate her u still are, and if she was still a virgin while this happened, its likely that she considers herself still a virgin, as her hymen wasnt broken. Plus, its common knowledge that if u do not ejaculate during intercourse u are still a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2006): the thing was i 'brushed it around a bit' lol but it didn't really go in i mean, that's the unsure bit really, it's quite strange i know, but i think it just about qualifies as losing virginity
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2006): haha well no, i'm pleased that i lost my virginity then, not trying to preserve virginity, i mean i lost it to the right person :) i considered law briefly but not for me, lol, thanks man
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006): You are no longer a virgin.
Haha. How else would you explain it to a girl in future?
"Well, I'm a virgin but there was this one time [at band camp] where I got naked with this chick, I put the head of my penis around her vaginal area, brushed it around a bit and the head kind of went in to the vagina but we're not too show how much of it did"
Would you say you were still innocent, untouched and pure? I think you are trying to preserve your virginity on a technicality. Have you considered a career in law?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006): I guess this question's lost now ;) I'm happy with the answers but still slightly unsure about what I described there, whether penetration of the initial area counts, if you see what i mean, haha, it's just bugging me a bit, i guess people aren't likely to see this now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): original poster again, I'm still a bit unsure, basically it went in at that time maybe the head, into the part that contracts, lol, it was definately in the initial area just hardly at all in the part that contracts. haha bad explanation there isn't it, she basically thought it was about a third or a quarter in. but if it's not in the part that contracts but the immediate area before it, between the flaps (for want of a better word, haha), does that count, hmm? thanks for your help, I feel a bit stupid :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): I'd say it was more about being an emotional virgin for a boy, girls have things that pop (mmm) but for boys, if you think youre not...you arent!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): sounds good to me thanks, just was unsure as it was shallow penetration, I think about many of the people losing it after they know someone for two minutes and I think to myself why shouldn't I able to say I lost it then, even if it wasn't fully in, hmm :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): I agree with the other aunts.
congratulations??
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reader, bonym  +, writes (21 August 2006):
 Ditto. If your penis has gone into her vagina, then you cant possibly be a virgin anymore. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): As soon as the penis goes inside the vagina you are not a virgin no matter how shallow the penetration.
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