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writes:Hey i really need help at the moment and i dont know who to turn to so i've came here. I've been in love with a girl for 3 years but i've never had the guts to ask her out and now im starting to get some feelings for her younger sister who is the same age as me and i feel really guilty and i would like to know why and what to do =/ Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 You are not in love, you are in lust, and have not acted on it with either girl.
So far, nothing to feel guilty for, but you do need to rethink what love means to you, and to learn the difference between love and lust.
-Frank B Kermit
www.frankadviceformen.com
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reader, Sophie-Lou-X +, writes (7 August 2008):
 Can I just ask if this girl knows how you feel about her, and whether or not she feels the same way?
Because if she doesn't, then theres no way that having feelings for her sister is going to hurt her. In any case, you shouldn't feel guilty at all, because you're not in a relationship with this girl, and you have no control over your feelings.
I think you need to look at which one you can see yourself being happiest with, and which one you can move forward with. Bare in mind, once you've made this decision, you will need to prevent yourself going further with the other sister. You can't control how you feel, but you can control your actions.
Hope this helps
Sophie xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): You haven't been with her sister so you shouldn't feel guilty. You possibly feel guilty because you have dedicated yourself to her but you then fall for her sister.
I suggest you decide on which sister you want to be with...as I said since you haven't been with either of them it won't cause strain on them.
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