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writes:When I was in 6th grade, I fell in love with my best friend.. she was so sweet and cute, I loved her so much; I still do, but I feel it fading..I promised her that I would love her forever.. but she's changing. I have complicated feelings, because at the right moment I know I love her more than anything.However, at the start of this sophomore year, I met a guy who was unlike any guy I've ever met.. He was sweet and caring, and just remembering him could make me smile and feel warm. He's amazingly funny and.. I guess he reminds me how my girlfriend used to be.So here's my dilemma..I don't want to break up with my girlfriend, because I know it will hurt her as much as it would hurt me, and I know I'll definitely be making the wrong choice..but I don't know how to deal with these feelings. I told myself "it's just a crush, enjoy it because it'll end soon" but it's not going away. How can I love my girlfriend as much as I love him again..?
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reader, Asiamericaluv +, writes (20 March 2009):
Alright...well I have no experience in the bisexual field but here's what I recommend. Look into the future a little bit....10-20 years down the road, farther even. Who can you see holding & kissing & making love to? Who makes you feel happier? Who makes you feel like a better person? Who's touch makes you feel more hungered for? Answer these questions, & whoever is the answer to more of these questions is the one you should go with. Best of luck.
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