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I love them both - what should I do?

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Question - (6 November 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am in a relationship for 11 years but fancy a man who no longer lives in the same country I visit him and he seems keen to meet me but he does not contact me on a regular basis I am the only that calls him if I email him he replys with one liners he knows my partner we are all friends should I keep on letting myself contact him or should I stop I would like to be with both of them close by as I love them both what should I do? My partner sort of has an unspoken understanding of this and I do not want to rock the boat by finding out or admitting my infatuation for the other guy who is fun. My partner is a dependable person always at my side

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006):

simply add up a list of pros and cons of both of them then pick

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