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I LOVE my teacher too much she's female and so am I.

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Question - (24 February 2008) 15 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *eckyholmes33 writes:

hey everyone i love my teacher i go to a girls grammer school and this certain teacher is female and she is everything to me i hug her when she's upset, she does the same to me i love her so so so so much

i really want some advice as i cant take it anymore i'm 14 and shes 33 but i still think about kissing her i'm always alone with her, she knows were i live and vice versus has my email cell number etc etc we talk about everything she is so adorable and i love her. she touches me and calls me sexy and babe, i don't know if she is gay but i think she is because she was holding hands with another woman in town once

please SOMEBODY write back to me

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thanks xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010):

i am a girl and i am in love with my female PE teacher and i

think shes also interested in me but i am not going to ask

her and you should not ask her or him because you will not get a good answer.

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A female reader, nikolkacze123 United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2010):

Hey, im not in the same situation at all, 1; im straight

2; got a boyfriend.... and on.

but from what i read i was a bit surprised, if a teacher calls you baby or sexy .. you should be careful even if you have special sexual feelings to her.

it might be hard but its for your own safety.

i would suggest that she might be a shemale, guy and so on.

Which would really risk you personal safety and space.

for the fact that she actually have called you that. It is more likely that she is a shemale......

i would of suggest to find someone your age, if you are a lesbian theres nothing wrong :) i got some friends which are lesbians .. you just have to fine the right one and dont make stupid choices

i would like to actually t

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A female reader, fantamaniac  United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2010):

OMG i am in the same position i cant tell her cus i dont want her to lose her job or go to jail !

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009):

Omgg, I am from England and go to college and I am in love or infactuated with my female law teacher. She's 32, married, shes so lovley and is always nice to me. Once she told us she kissed a girl. I think I'm Bisexual but I only seem to be attracted to teachers and now a girl who looked after me (I wont go into detail) who is the same age as me.

Do you think it has something to do with my mother? I do have an ok relationship with her though and my childhood was fine apart from my parents divorce. I also came out in like year 8 and literally got pushed back in, and that has stayed with me and thats why I think I have a hard time accepting it.

This is dominating my life, she is all thik about and Im going crazy. I hate feeling like this, especially about the fact that she is a woman and I cant have her, the feelings I have arent necesserily sexual, i dont realy think about that, what the hell is wrong with me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009):

ugh, im in pretty much the same position as you..kind of..except she doesnt even teach me! :(

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A female reader, 024 United States +, writes (30 August 2009):

Tell her how you feel through email when u turn 18 and graduate

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A female reader, Jenna2008 United States +, writes (2 June 2008):

I am in the exact situation as you are. I am 15, going on 16 very soon, and I am completely IN LOVE iwth my female social studies teacher. She is just so beautiful and everything. I would love to tell her how I feel but that isn't fair to her. She is 17 years older than me also, and married with 2 children. I would tell her I love her, but i'm afraid she'll turn me into the school. :[

Just keep it inside if you don't want to get hurt or in trouble.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008):

hey hun ...aww i had the same situation as you i dont knw hw to explain to her that i like her 2 its very hard and upsets me that i carnt tell her because she s my counciller teacher i really like her she makes me smile wen im down and hugs me & also knws my numba and ect...

i really like her

HELPPPP ME

looooooooool

.....xxxxxxxxxxx.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

I think the fact that she calls you sexy and babe is just a bit on the weird side.

I love my teacher. And I have done for quite a long time, and I would give the world to know my teacher as well as you do. But she hasn't got a clue, and she hasn't come onto me in the slightest.

I know it must be hard for you, but I advise you to stay away from this teacher... The fact that she wants it, kind of gives me a weird feeling about her responsibility as a teacher.

Its really hard to see them everyday and not be able to share your feelings with anyone, but this teacher, sounds a bit shifty...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008):

I urge you NOT to act on these feelings. She will likely go to jail, lose her teaching license, never work with kids again, and be a registered sex offender for the rest of her life. And, as for you, you could end up the but of every joke in your school, lose all of your friends, see your grades drop dramatically (typical of ALL sexual relationships between teachers and students), have to change schools and/or move to another town, and end up in years of therapy.

It just isn't worth it to risk all that just for a few fleeting emotions. The best thing you can do is concentrate on your school studies, and when you have graduated, and become an ADULT, only THEN is it advisable to tell her anything. Remember this, 99.999% of the time, if you want to do something, but either are ashamed about it or affraid of the consequences, then it's something you SHOULDN't do.

Don't take my word, ask Claire Lyte, Dawn Welter, Elizabeth Miklosovic, Jaymee Wallace, Lauren Palmer, Marcia Mote, Pamela Balogh, and Kanesa Hopkins (all women who are currently in prison for having relationships with female students), to name a few.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008):

hey been in same situation

n i was completely straight

in the end i gt my heart broken n it really hurt!

she was also straight but we just fell for each other wen i was 15 but she had a bf. in the end she gt married n now is pregnant. we cant even luk each other in the eye anymore. but it completely up to u, if its wat u want then yer fair enough go for it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008):

Lol, its ok. Im 13 and a girl and had quite a few female crushes. When I was in 6th grade i had a huge crush on my female science teacher. She was so funny and cute and pretty. Every time shed smiled at me or call me "sweetie", id get all excited and imagine us touching when i was in bed. So anyway, its ok to have feelings for your teacher. It just means that you admire her alot. Its not like youll end up marrying her or anything. But about ur taeacher calling you sexy and babe and holding hands with another woman, she might be gay-so watch out.

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A female reader, unknown x United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2008):

unknown x agony aunthi,

i am in a very similar situation so i can sympathise with you. i know it's hard. please mail me privatley if you want to chat, i'd like to know about your problem in more detail. please just feel free to mail me any time.

i ended up telling my female teacher that i love her.

good luck

x

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A female reader, unknown x United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2008):

unknown x agony aunthi,

i am in a very similar situation so i can symathise with you. i know it's hard. please mail me privatley if you want to chat, i'd like to know about your problem in more detail. please just feel free to mail me any time.

i ended up telling my female teacher that i love her.

good luck

x

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A female reader, scene-kid- United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2008):

scene-kid- agony auntWell to be honest. Why she calls you sexy and babe is a bit bad

What ever happens nothing could happen between you.

she would lose her job

and you are under age

She would go to jail

Just try and take her mind of it

god bles

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