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writes:I am 44 met this man 20 years older than me. He made me feel wanted and loved. He knows exactly what I want and I've never feel so good in my life. Two years on now I love him more everyday and want more sex with him. But he obviously cant keep the pace. I dont want to leave him but I feel bad feeling unsatisfied. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 I'm also an older man who has recently been with much younger women and I am challenged to do the things that I used to find easy. My problem is even compounded by having a heart attack about four years ago, and I fairly quickly get out of breath trying to give a younger woman the consistent pounding she might enjoy. I make up for it largely by satisfying a lady orally if she enjoys reaching orgasm that way - most do.
My one other salvation is maintaining a large and firm erection, and the solution has been to encourage a younger lady to ride me "woman-on-top." To put it bluntly, it means that SHE is doing most of the physical labor that I could do in my earlier years.
For some reason, it is also easier for me to prolong my release, for up to an hour if she can handle it, which usually provides all the penetration most girls could want. And when she is spent, I can let go then or she can take me orally.
If your lover can maintain the erection, he might benefit from my solution.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 I'm afraid we can't help you.
You need to determine whether you will stay with him, even if he can't keep up, or will leave him. He's not getting any younger or more potent.
Also, people will not necessarily need or want sex as often as you do, and sometimes you need to accept that.
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