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writes: It has now been about 2 and a half months that my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We still keep in touch every once in a while. Mostly me wanting to get together with her and going out or something, but the time just hasn't come yet, she got a new job and is living her life now.It's just that since the break-up I have come a long way and realised what had caused it, and realised what went wrong. There is so much I want to tell her but I feel like it just isn't time yet.I love this girl with all my heart and I feel like in the future if ever I do get involved with someone else, I know that the love for the next will never be the same love that I had for my Ex.Somedays are good days and somedays are bad days, I know this is normal, and only time will fix things between us. And it just feels right to be with this girl, we have so much in common.Is this normal ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2006): Yes, this is perfectly normal. Most people cannot see the problems that arise during a relationship. They mainly see the immediate problem. It is only after a time after they are apart, that they can see clearer, when the 'fog of war' has passed.
As with when is a good time to communicate with her, it's difficult. This isn't something that is the same with everyone and is quite relative to the individuals involved.
I feel the same way with my ex, except she is now a secondary matter I face when at home, alone, and resting. It "feels right to be with this girl" because there is familiarity, and there were the good times. I know there are probably as many or more bad times, but sometimes you can't help but wonder...
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