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writes:I made love to my workmate but now i feel so down and bad, he is married but wherever his wife comes to work i feel so bad. I feel so embarrassed and i want to quit the job and stop looking at him for a life time. What amazes me is that he does not mind it. Normally on weekends we go out together but end up in a hotel when he is drunk.What can i do? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): well he doesn't feel bad about it, and he's the one who's married and has a wife. this is more of his problem than yours, unless you fool yourself into thinking or hoping that you and him can have a real relationship.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (3 August 2011):
 He doesn't mind because he gets pleasure with you and his wife. Don't be surprised by this. He gets to girls. You need to stop this now and then move forward with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): stop being the other women......!!!!!!!!!!!!!! think about it would you want some s**t sleeping with your husband? even if he is drunk and wants to be with you , you should know better.. he is married have some respect for yourself and his wife. remember what goes around comes around.
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (3 August 2011):
 Stop seeing the guy. You knew he was married so don't expect to not feel guilty about your decision to sleep with him. If he really makes you that uncomfortable now, then try to find another job and don't quit that job until you've found another. And it's not worth having sex with someone who doesn't respect their wife or partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): what can you do? how about sewing your legs together while with him?
you cant really feel so bad or ashamed if you continuously have sex with this married man.
u see it is not only about his wife finding out BUT the workplace colleagues as well. can u imagine what a reputation u will have once the workforce comes to know about your bedtime antics
why not read this :http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-feel-like-ill-never-be-able-to.html - then u will realise the full extent of sleeping with a married man and being made to feel like sh!t when the sex is over.
of course your married colleague does not mind....imagine if he had to pay a prostitute for the sex you are supplying? it actually suits him fine to get free sex instead of paying for it.
if you feel cheap then you know what u need to do.
not only are u going to be known as a homewrecker but you will lose face at work as well.
LoveGirl
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