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writes:heyahhi love my boy friend so muchbut i get picked on and bullyed so bad that i have started self harming is it worth going out with my boyfriend?we went to the library today and 4 girls frm skwl came in and started having a go sayin i go with a hamster just becaise his cheeks are bigger than normal plz plz plz help write with any advicebc all advice is welcome Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Ask yourself this; At this present time, do you see yourself happier without him? ppl con't pushing buttons when they get a reaction. If you went on like you dont care it will get worse at 1st then die down (nobody likes beating a dead horse). Ask yourself this, Why are they so concerned about your boyfriend? They dont have 2 spend time w him. You cant let friends, foes or family dictate your relationship otherwise you'll always be self harming and breakin up.
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (20 April 2008):
 Oh and also, they are probably just jelous of you, as you have a boyfriend! They probably are immature jerks who need to get over themselves!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): Awh honey I'm sorry to hear they're being so awful to you. But think about it, how immature are they being? Very! I mean, come on, hamster. That's ridiculous.
Tell them at least you're mature enough to get a boyfriend, and they're just walking around making immature stupid comments.
But to answer your question, stay with him if you like him honey. Nothing should tear you apart.
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (20 April 2008):
Wow. People can be so cruel. But I think the thing to remember is anyone who needs to get their power from bullying and picking on others is someone who is not feeling very good about themselves. They go on the attack so they can vent their own frustrations about themselves. It's so sad. I'm sorry.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Uh... If you love your boyfriend STAY WITH HIM, no matter what. Of course it's worth going out with him. Just stand up to the bullies. Tell them to shut up and shove off. Trust me, it works. Or tell a member of staff at your school. I've been there, and when telling people didn't help, I yelled at them back. It worked. Trust me. If you love your boyfriend, never give that up.
Wishing you the best.
xx
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reader, WiccanWonder +, writes (19 April 2008):
OMG! Dont give in to what they are saying!
If you like him, ignore them. And dont self harm, its just not the solution!
I had a bf and everyone took the mick out of me. I didnt care, and neither should you!
I hope this helps
From tasha.
P.s feel free to mail me any time on here =]
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