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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I live in southwest va. Currently I have a boyfriend that lives in this area. I have a friend that lives up north and I really like him, we can sit around and talk to each other for hours about nothing. My birthday is comming up soon and he wants me to celebrate with him. I love my boyfriend but I could see my friend and I falling in love over time. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Rapustin +, writes (15 November 2008):
i realli think the questions here r;
1) of both guys, who do u realli love?..
2) how do they treat u as a person?
now be careful, what u choose 2 do especially if u choose 2 dump ur boyfriend 4 dis other guy is veri crucial u know, personally, it ain't kool 4 people who quit on things easily especially matters of the heart because if u leave the first guy 4 this other guy, why? coz u think u r startin 2 like him?, then believe me dat later in life u will still meet other people u'll like veri well what do u dn then quit again...
So i suggest u talk 2 ur boy, tell him what u want,.. what is in the other boy that's not in ur boy then know it's not mean't 2 be there ok.. leave ur boyfriend Only if ur boyfriend iz reluctant 2 make it work between the both of u, and u, try 2 make it work ok.
my point exactly is, tell ur boy what u want, if the quality u admire in the other boy is dat he talks 2 u a lot, then tell ur boy u want him 2 talk wit u a lot more than usual ok?..
Goodluck
pls tell me how it worked out...
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