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36-40,
*ara518
writes:i'm 19 years old. i've been dating my boyfriend for a year, and we live together. everything was going great until recently when i developed a crush on this girl that me and my boyfriend both work with. she is my friend as well as his. everybody believes her to be a lesbian, but she denies it. shes 21, and has never had a boyfriend, and she totally gives off the lesbian vibe and look. she knows that i'm bi sexual. i invited her to come to a club with me and my friends and she came, everybody agreed that they thought she had a crush on me. this made me so happy. everyday i feel like i fall harder for her. but i still love my boyfriend. i so badly want to hook up with her. i just need her to open up about her sexuality. i dont know what to do, one part of me is saying that i have an amazing loving caring and kind boyfriend that i love, and another part of me cannot get this girl out of my head. what should i do? please help, i feel so insane right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): Talk to your bf about it, talk to her about it, and if both are ok, then go out with both of em. Just don't lie to anyone, puts you in a bad place.
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reader, gothghen +, writes (22 August 2007):
 dont leave your boyfriend for a girl you just met., and seriously if you just like her.. LOVE is GREATER than LIKE.. so why would you, or should i say why is it that easy to think on dumping your boyfriend.? do you seriously think you still/ or do love your boyfriend.? arent you happy with him.? people come and go, they say be with the person who makes yoou happy.. but didnt you ever wonder that this girl yopu say, is just a crush.? dont jump into conclusions now.. you dont wanna regret at the end right.? you falling harder and harder for this girl is coz you maybe lost intrest in your boyfriend. maybe you want him to give you the look and everything that he doenst do. DONT SEARCH FOR ANYTHING that you dont have, be contented on what you have now, never know.? leaving him would be like hell.. make new things or do new things together with your boyfriend.. give a lil spice into you guys relationship.. dont yah think.?
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