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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello people!Okay.. recently I've noticed a really weird change after previous relationships and my ex lied to me and such.. I'm not sure if I turned lesbian or anything but.. recently I just lost the attraction to men and I got a huge crush on my best friend.. She don't know I like her that way.. it's just like.. when I'm hugging her or anything I don't wanna let go.. I really want to tell her I like her that way.. but it's bugging me since I don't know if she will say she don't want it and then we will lose our friendship or mess it up.. Please help :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answer! I'll try that.
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reader, llifton +, writes (21 May 2011):
 the best way to handle these types of situations, in my past experiences, is not to flat out come straight out with your feelings. cause it may just freak her out. but rather drop little hints here and there and feel her out. make little flirtatious comments and see how she responds to them. if she flirts back, that's a great sign. if she doesn't go along with it, not a good sign. and also, there's little signs that you'll pick up on, too, if she's into you. she may find ways to touch you. she may jokingly say flirtatious things to you. she may find a way to spend all of her time with you. you can tell when a girl likes you. see if you can't pick up on some of these things. and be patient. you'll find out eventually what she's feeling. and the beautiful thing is if she's not giving off these signals, you haven't directly said anything that could jeopardize your friendship. good luck!
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